Born in
the town of Karaikkal to a rich merchant, Karaikkal Ammaiyar was
originally named Punithavathi. Punithavathi was devoted to Lord Shiva right
from her childhood. When she came of age, her father got her married to another
merchant by name Paramadattan from Nagapattinam. But as she was his only child,
her father did not want her to stay away. Hence he built a house near his place
for his daughter and son-in-law and made them live close by.
Punithavthi
and Paramadattan started their life in Karaikkal. One day when Paramadattan was
at work, a visitor brought him two mangoes. He sent the mangoes home. Punithavathiyar
was alone at home. A devotee of Lord Shiva came for food. Punithavathiyar offered him
lunch and also one of the mangoes her husband had sent.
Later, when Paramadattan came home for lunch, he
asked for a mango and ate it. He found the mango very sweet and wanted to eat
the other mango too. Worried that Paramadattan may be angry if she said she had
given it away, Punithavathi went inside and prayed to Lord Shiva.
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Miraculously, she got a mango in her hand and took it to her husband. Paramadattan found this mango extremely tasty and asked his wife about it. Punithavathi came out with the truth that the Lord had given it to her. Unable to believe this, Paramadattan asked Punithavathi to request the Lord for one more mango. She did this promptly and gave him the third mango (the second miraculous one). The mango vanished from Paramadattan’s hand.
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Miraculously, she got a mango in her hand and took it to her husband. Paramadattan found this mango extremely tasty and asked his wife about it. Punithavathi came out with the truth that the Lord had given it to her. Unable to believe this, Paramadattan asked Punithavathi to request the Lord for one more mango. She did this promptly and gave him the third mango (the second miraculous one). The mango vanished from Paramadattan’s hand.
Now Paramadattan understood that his wife was no
ordinary woman and decided that he could not continue to live with her. He said
he was going out of town on business and sailed out of the country. He came
back and settled down in a town in Pandyanadu.He
also married again and had a daughter. He named his daughter Punithavathi out
of respect for his first wife.
Coming to know that Paramadattan was living in
another town nearby, Punithavathi’s relatives took her to him. When they met,
Paramadattan fell at Punithavathiyar’s feet along with his family members. The
relatives were surprised to see the husband falling at his wife’s feet.
Paramadattan then narrated the story of the mangoes to the relatives.
Understanding that her husband would never live with her any more, Punithavathi
wanted to give up her youth. She prayed to the Lord to change her form to a
skeletal ghost (பேய் உருவம்). Her prayer was answered and she immediately
transformed into a ghost. She proceeded to Kailasam in that form.
Reaching Kailasam,
she did not want to walk on her feet and hence started walking on her head.
Goddess Parvathi enquired Lord Shiva about the ghost form walking upside down
towards them. The Lord said, it was his “Mother” who was on her way to meet
him. Punithavathiyar became Karaikkal Ammaiyar as the Lord himself called her
His mother. She reached the Lord and fell at his feet, calling Him her father.
She conveyed her wish to see His cosmic dance and the Lord asked her to reside
in Thiruvalangaadu and see his dance there forever. Karaikkal Ammaiyar reached
Thiruvalangaadu and once there, she could see only the Lord everywhere and
hence continued to walk on her head. Here she sang the Lord’s praise and
attained mukti.
Karaikkal Ammaiyar has composed many hymns on the
Lord like “Arpudha Thiruvandhadhi”, “Irattai Mani Malai” and “Thiruvaalankaadu
Mootha Thiruppthigam”.
About Maangani Thiruvizha celebrated in Kararikal
karaikkal ammaiyar during Maangani festival
The event of Saiva Saint Karaikkal Ammayar reaching
Kailasa in her “Ghost body” is celebrated the next day.
The two hymns Rettai Mani Maali and Thiruvandadhi
would be recited. After chanting, all the lights in the temple would be put off
and lamp of Lord Shiva and Ammaiyar would be lit. The lamp of Ammayar would be
taken to Lord Shiva and placed together signifying the reaching of Ammayar to
the Lotus feet of Lord Shiva in Jyothi form.
OM NAMAH SHIVAYA
THIRUCHITRAMBALAM